Coach Lori Park

Where attention goes, energy flows.

We are far more powerful than anyone has lead us to believe.  Whatever we focus our attention on, we are actually bringing that into our existence..

If we worry, we will get more things to worry about.  If we're afraid of something, that concern will become greater.  If we see the goodness in others, we will find more good people around us. If we smile at people, it shifts not only our day, but it makes their day brighter, too.  If we encourage others, we notice more possibilities in our own life.

Those who look outside -Dream

Those who look within -Awake

Carl Young

When the world appears crazy and out of sorts, there's a very simple and often overlooked solution.

Grounding and balancing your life.

If we are out of balance, then we are adding to the chaos in the world.  Most of the time, we don't even realize it.

If we take a few minutes to go outside in the sun, our system gets nourished.  When we take our shoes off and go barefoot in the grass, our system gets nourished.  When we quiet our mind and say hello to our Creator, our system gets nourished.

When we Balance our self, we are no longer connected to the chaos in the world.  Everything is frequency, and when you're no longer a frequency of chaos, then you become an instrument of peace, of love, of gentleness that actually calms the chaos.

Whichever frequency is stronger, will neutralize the other.

You Are Far More Powerful Than You Realize!

What does the word AUTHORITY mean?

"The power or right to give orders, make decisions, and enforce obedience." 

If we are talking about "Your Life", who has the right to make decisions for you?

If we were talking about someone else's life, who has the right to make decisions for them?

This the simplest and most clarifying way to define that we each have the Authority for our own life.  Don't allow others to take the authority away from you.  By the same token, make sure you don't take the authority away from anyone else for their lives.

You can always ask for peoples opinions, but understand, YOU get to make the final decision.

Break free from the bondage of other peoples beliefs and expectations on YOUR LIFE.

We are here to experience and create through our life.  So don't cheat the world.

 Be Authentically YOU!

"Laziness kills Ambition

Anger kills Wisdom

Fear kills Dreams

Ego kills Growth

Jealousy kills Peace

Doubt kills Confidence

Now read the above right to left"

-Unknown

 To successfully navigate through life, you have to answer two questions honestly.

1) Where am I truly at.        2) Where do I truly want to be.

If you need time to think through these questions, it would be time well invested.  Because this is "your" life, and the more accurate the answers are to Your preferences (and not parent's, spouse's or others), the happier you'll be with the results.  Parents, spouse and others have their own lives, and too many people get lost in other people's expectation.  Everyone needs to respect each others healthy boundaries, and sometimes reminders need to be given out.

This also pertains to disconnecting from Social Media, talk shows, and news programs.  Believe it or not, there is a lot of subliminal programing designed to target your subconscious thoughts and beliefs.  You don't have to walk away from these forever, but when developing your own destination, you don't want to view it from other programing or filters.

After accurately identifying...

FOCUS on what you desire.

FEEL as if you're already living in that environment.

YOU ARE MORE POWERFUL THAN YOU REALIZE!

Are we uniting or dividing ourselves?

We go through life day by day, taking care of our responsibilities, but rarely do we stop and realize if our actions, our words, and even our thoughts are uniting those around us or dividing us.

This might seem irrelevant, but I assure you, our thoughts, our words and our deeds are either calming the chaos in the world or enhancing the chaos.

It's all about AWARENESS!

If everything is energy, then what is grabbing our attention at any given moment?  Are we feeling good or bad?  Do we notice the things going right in our life, or the things going wrong?

If we take a pause during the day to answer these questions, and become AWARE of what we're feeling and therefore the energy we are putting out into the world...then we can literally bring peace and harmony into our communities, our nation, and our world.

If others around you are being unkind, don't join into that behavior...BE KIND.  If others are rude....BE CONSIDERATE.  If others are disre...

How you look at things will either support you, or hold you back.

If you never went through any change, you wouldn't have grown.  I agree sometimes change can be scary...sometimes it's not.  Could that be because of what you're thinking or how you believe the change will affect you, that made the difference?

I always recommend the 20% - 80% rule.  Look at the situation for 20% of the time, to see the problems you perceive might happen with this change.  Then suspend those thoughts, and with a fresh mind, spend the remaining 80% of the time looking at the possibilities, options, and opportunities that this change can bring to your life.

This is how we Grow in life.  This is how we Create in life; and we are infinite creators.  If we can dream it, we can create it!

Afterwards, you can look back and realize the benefits from that change, and how it enhanced your life.

Boomerang Effect

Whatever you put out into the world, the same thing will be delivered back to you.

It has been said throughout the ages, "As a man sows, so shall he reap"

It is to all of our benefit, to be aware of what we are putting out into the world. 

May I recommend Love and Compassion?