Coach Lori Park

 To successfully navigate through life, you have to answer two questions honestly.

1) Where am I truly at.        2) Where do I truly want to be.

If you need time to think through these questions, it would be time well invested.  Because this is "your" life, and the more accurate the answers are to Your preferences (and not parent's, spouse's or others), the happier you'll be with the results.  Parents, spouse and others have their own lives, and too many people get lost in other people's expectation.  Everyone needs to respect each others healthy boundaries, and sometimes reminders need to be given out.

This also pertains to disconnecting from Social Media, talk shows, and news programs.  Believe it or not, there is a lot of subliminal programing designed to target your subconscious thoughts and beliefs.  You don't have to walk away from these forever, but when developing your own destination, you don't want to view it from other programing or filters.

After accurately identifying...

FOCUS on what you desire.

FEEL as if you're already living in that environment.

YOU ARE MORE POWERFUL THAN YOU REALIZE!

Are we uniting or dividing ourselves?

We go through life day by day, taking care of our responsibilities, but rarely do we stop and realize if our actions, our words, and even our thoughts are uniting those around us or dividing us.

This might seem irrelevant, but I assure you, our thoughts, our words and our deeds are either calming the chaos in the world or enhancing the chaos.

It's all about AWARENESS!

If everything is energy, then what is grabbing our attention at any given moment?  Are we feeling good or bad?  Do we notice the things going right in our life, or the things going wrong?

If we take a pause during the day to answer these questions, and become AWARE of what we're feeling and therefore the energy we are putting out into the world...then we can literally bring peace and harmony into our communities, our nation, and our world.

If others around you are being unkind, don't join into that behavior...BE KIND.  If others are rude....BE CONSIDERATE.  If others are disre...

How you look at things will either support you, or hold you back.

If you never went through any change, you would'nt have grown.  I agree sometimes change can be scary...sometimes it's not.  Could that be because of what you're thinking or how you believe the change will affect you, that made the difference?

I always recommend the 20% - 80% rule.  Look at the situation for 20% of the time, to see the problems you perceive might happen with this change.  Then suspend those thoughts, and with a fresh mind, spend the remaining 80% of the time looking at the possibilities, options, and opportunities that this change can bring to your life.

This is how we Grow in life.  This is how we Create in life; and we are infinite creators.  If we can dream it, we can create it!

Afterwards, you can look back and realize the benefits from that change, and how it enhanced your life.

Boomerang Effect

Whatever you put out into the world, the same thing will be delivered back to you.

It has been said throughout the ages, "As a man sows, so shall he reap"

It is to all of our benefit, to be aware of what we are putting out into the world. 

May I recommend Love and Compassion?

You might be surprised, but many people want to be told some thing that's NOT true, if the truth isn't pleasant.

The problem with that is...you won't be able to navigate to where you WANT to be if you're given inaccurate information to begin with.

Those people will constantly feel lost, frustrated, and unhappy.

As hard as the truth may be, it will always be the shortest journey to your desired destination!

Rumi is so right!

The only one we can really change is our self.  As we look inside our self and notice what's working and what's not working, we can change what needs to be changed.  Day by day, one internal change at a time, WILL change how we show up in the world.

When we show up new and improved, then we are dancing with the world differently.  The world is adjusting to this new person we're becoming. 

Little by little, by little, the world is adjusting and course correcting.  It all starts with how we show up, and the choices we make each day.

So, are you Clever...or are you Wise?

You are Unique!

Other people's rules won't properly fit your life.  If other peoples rules were right for your life, your life would have worked by now.

Think for yourself.  Discern what's right for you.

Things may shake around you - Hold Steady.

YOU ARE AWESOME, AND THERE'S NOBODY QUITE LIKE YOU!