Coach Lori Park

Random acts of kindness are unselfish, unexpected gestures intended to make someones life easier, or the world a better place.

Simple acts, like volunteering, paying for the person's order behind you, giving a person a compliment, or even hold the door open for a stranger.

While these kind actions feel good to both the giver and the receiver, what most people don't realize are the residual benefits.

Acts of kindness not only boosts happiness, reduces stress, strengthen community bonds, but as a bonus, it has an affects your brain's chemistry.  These kind actions releases dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin in the person's brain of the Giver, the Receiver, AND anyone that Witness the action.

Now that's what I call, an Influencer!

Does life seem confusing and chaotic?

Does it appear like the efforts you're putting, aren't realizing the results you're looking for?

Then maybe you're seeing only half of the picture.  Maybe you can't see the things in the dark yet.  Maybe people are only giving you half of the truth.  Maybe you're only looking at things in the light, and not asking yourself if there's anything else to consider. There could be many different reasons why you're not seeing the full picture, but that's not the relative part, 

The important reason to see the fuller picture, is so you can come up with the best solutions. So that your decisions aren't half backed, but instead fully thought through.

It always is darkest before the dawn.  Wait until you gain more clarity.  Keep an open mind to what you're not seeing yet.  Evaluate all information carefully.  Then formulate a well throughout opinion.

Remember, your mind is like a parachute, it works best open!

We are being flooded with so much information that it's hard to keep up.

Some of the information sounds so crazy, it's hard to believe it can possibly be true,

I've always been one who wants to know the truth, no matter how painful it might be.  The reason why is simple, if you know the truth you can make the appropriate adjustment for a better outcome.  If you make a decision on a false narrative, then you're not fixing anything.

Garbage In, Garbage Out.

When you're "digestion information", you are suspending your judgement while processing the facts, and research any questionable aspects.

When you are "denying information", you're blocking any information from being processed.

Common signs of Denial

Refusing to talk about the problem

Finding a way to justify the situation

Blaming other people, or outside forces for causing the problem

Just remember, it's the Truth that sets us Free!

What does the word AUTHORITY mean?

"The power or right to give orders, make decisions, and enforce obedience." 

If we are talking about "Your Life", who has the right to make decisions for you?

If we were talking about someone else's life, who has the right to make decisions for them?

This the simplest and most clarifying way to define that we each have the Authority for our own life.  Don't allow others to take the authority away from you.  By the same token, make sure you don't take the authority away from anyone else for their lives.

You can always ask for peoples opinions, but understand, YOU get to make the final decision.

Break free from the bondage of other peoples beliefs and expectations on YOUR LIFE.

We are here to experience and create through our life.  So don't cheat the world.

 Be Authentically YOU!

How do you change a world that has gone completely off the rails?

By Being:

Kind

Respectful

Loving

Patient

Compassionate

Peaceful

You see, you'll never extinguish hate by bringing more hate to the situation.  You need to conquer or overcome it, by bringing in a higher frequency to the chaos.

There once was a popular song that said "Let there be Peace on Earth, and let it begin with ME."

We can't control other people.  The only one we can control is our-self and our behavior.

When YOU set the example, people notice.

A good example goes viral, and becomes contagious!

Freedom isn't Free!

We honor those who put their lives on the line so we can live in a free country.  While the military fights for freedom abroad, it is the citizens responsibility to hold the line of freedom at home.

Be aware of what's happening in your local cities and counties.  Know your rights given to you in the Constitution.

The Constitution clearly states what authority is given to the government, and what authority remains in the hands of the citizens.

Know the Rules.

Knowledge is Power!

FOCUS on what you desire.

FEEL as if you're already living in that environment.

YOU ARE MORE POWERFUL THAN YOU REALIZE!

We are living through a bold period of time where Good and Evil is clashing like never before.  Don't conform to the corruption around you.  Don't go along, to get along.  Rise above it!

You were Not made to fit in…You were born to Stand Out.

You were born to lead.  You were born to live with courage and conviction.  It’s time for each of us to step into our purpose, and to never compromise our values just to be accepted.

A personal warrior ethos are your guiding set of principles that you use to navigate challenges and strive for excellence in life.

Identify what truly matters to you.  Reflect on your experiences.  Your experiences have actually molded you for who you're becoming.

Disconnect yourself from what others do.  They were never meant to be your moral compass.

President Kennedy once said, "Ask not what your country can do for you --ask what you can do for your country."

Shouldn't we be saying the same thing about Our Community, and Our Family?

We are here to be All That We Can Be.  That's our target.  It doesn't matter what others are doing...they'll eventually catch on and catch up.

Be who YOU were meant to be...AN EXAMPLE!