Coach Lori Park

Groups have studied for decades, how the human mind works; and how to motivate a person. This has constantly been used in advertising. How to stimulate the mind, to get a desired result.

Did you know a person will do more and move faster, to avoid pain than they would to gain pleasure?

You might be surprised whose been using these techniques on you, without your knowledge. Even on the news. Are the reported stories about "fearful" things, or about "pleasant" things happening? I know there are many more acts of kindness, than there are of drama and trauma. However the reports aren't even half good reports and half bad. If you notice the pattern, for the most part, are all fear based reports, and then end with one happy story. Could it be designed to have us view things in a fearful way?

It's time for us to "Re-Focus" our thoughts, our words, and our vision, on the good things in life. Because what we think, say, and do....actually creates our tomorrow.

Everything is a vibrational fr...

Objective definition:

A person who is not influenced by personal feelings or opinions in considering and representing facts.  Being impartial or unbiased.

        Subjective definition:

A person who is influenced by personal feelings, taste or opinions.  Allowing emotions or biases to sway the outcome.

To gain clarity in your life, make sure you understand which lens you're looking through.

Forgiveness is the gateway to a better quality of life!

Take a look at the chart below:

Notice the difference levels LOW, NEUTRAL and HIGH.

If you find the emotion of FORGIVENESS, you will see that it's at the beginning of all the emotional states we want to live within.

FORGIVENESS is what you must go through in order to reach a higher state of consciousness.

If you're unwilling to forgive, or to let go of people and experiences that have hurt you, then you're depriving yourself of a happy fulfilled life.

How do we forgive?  Who do we forgive?  Forgive Everyone....for Everything!

Consciously or unconsciously, most people were taught to label others....how people are different. Then we judge people accordingly.  Maybe that's a good place to start forgiving.  Forgive those who taught us there's a difference between people with different skin color; different religions; different political beliefs; different cultures....and at the same time, we need to forgive ourselves for bel...

Have you ever wondered where you are, or even where are you going?  Well then this blog is for you.  I like to think of this chart as a "Directional Chart" to life.

You know when you enter the doors of your local mall, you come across a Directory?  It list every store in the mall, then it has a dot saying "You Are Here".  That's how I like to use this chart.  At different times in our life...or even in our day, we are in different states of emotions.  I will look at this chart, realize what I'm feeling, and if I'm not in a good place....just like at the mall, I notice where I'd like to be.

Once you know where you are, and then where you'd like to be, you can see the clear path to arrive at your preferred destination.

Most people need to traverse, even if only briefly, through each emotion between where you are and where you want to be.  The exception to this would be someone who is manic-depressive, their emotions can skip around, but for most of us, this is like a ladder that yo...

Most people are living life primarily in the first three charkas, Survival, Sexuality, and Power.

These first few charkas are also known as living in a 3rd dimensional life.  Why would any one chooses to live at a 3-D, rather than enjoying a 4th dimension or even 5th dimension life?  I propose to you that it wasn't actually a choice, but rather some subconscious programing done without our awareness.

If someone have been given fear based traumas, and experienced feelings of "Fight or Flight", then repeated; it causes the Energy Centers to regress into the lower 3 chakra centers.  Think of the movies you have seen, the pattern of the script writing usually revolves around a "hero's journey" which is all around triggering those fears, trauma, and anxieties before a last moment reprieve.  Look at the evening news, multiple fear based triggers are being reported when there are actually more good things happening than bad things. However they bang the drum of fear and anxiety - again pr...

                 Perspective

When we Change the way we look at things....

          The things we look at Change!

From wrong thinking, to right thinking. 

From hurt, to forgiveness. 

From weakness, to strength. 

From bondage, to freedom.

From division, to unity.

From conflict, to peace.

From storm, to restoration.

From dark, to light

Moving forward from the previous post: https://www.coachloripark.com/blog/understanding-this-will-change-your-life

In the last post we took a look at frequencies.  There are frequencies that are harmonic...and frequencies that are dis-harmonic.  How can you tell which are which?  By the way you feel.

We have become far too patient in living with things that don't feel good, or feel right.

Our bodies are a treasure trove of pure intelligence, however we tend to ignore, over-look, or over-ride this wisdom.  We look to "social media" or friends for our guidance.  The problem with that is, they will give us guidance through their lives, circumstances, or filters.  So their guidance might be perfect for them, but your life usually has difference circumstances and variables.

We need to turn inward and ask ourselves basic questions.  Do I like "this", or do I like "that".  Does this make be feel "happy" or "sad".  Often we might hear thoughts like "my family expects me to do....".  That's...

When you understand everything is a vibration frequency, and you learn how it works; then you become the master of your life.

We lived in a world that withheld the truth from us.  We are now in a period of time that is not only exposing the lies....but also teaching us the truth.  The "REAL" set of rules. 

Have you ever tried to play a board game, and you didn't take time to read the rules?  Your friend might have just explained the rules as you start to learn the game.  Then a question come in to play that can't be answered, so you pull out the rules.  You end up discovering you've been playing with the wrong understanding all along.

That's where we are, people in control intentionally gave us the wrong rules, and life was hard.  The good news is, you are now being exposed to the "REAL RULES".  Embrace the opportunity for Joy, Laughter, Harmony, and Love.  All the things you've been wanting in your life....and now you have the information to obtain anything you desire.

Moving forward from the previous post https://www.coachloripark.com/blog/rebuilding-something-better.

No Man Is An Island!

We were not meant to come to this planet and exist alone.  We are all children of our Creator, and as children we learn new things...we fall down and learn to get up again.  It doesn't matter how many times you fall down, what matters is, how many times do you get up???

You were born into this crazy world at this very precise time for a reason.  Your life's lessons that you've conquered will help so many people at this time.  There are No Mistakes, you were meant to have those lessons, so you can help other navigate through them.  We are all experts in what we have gone through, and over come.

What many people don't realize yet, is that the rules that were in place before 2020 are now totally different.  If we are going to excel during this time we need to own the wisdom within the core of our being, and share it with others. 

This is how we Rebuild Our Commu...